Meet Our Team
Belonging.
Believing.
Becoming.
The Quest is a progressive, Christian community of faith.
Our Co-Pastors
Our co-pastor team shares responsibility for teaching, pastoral care, programming and overall direction of The Quest.
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Our Staff
Our small-but-mighty staff helps make it all happen.
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Our Leadership Team
Our Quest Leadership Team acts as our board of directors, and they pour their hearts and souls into leadership and service.
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Our Co-Pastors
Matt Nightingale
Co-Lead Pastor
Matt is a musician, speaker, writer and spiritual director living and working in the North San Francisco Bay Area. He has been the worship pastor at The Quest since October of 2017 and became co-lead pastor in July 2019. He is also a spiritual director and support group facilitator with The Christian Closet, which offers web-based counseling, coaching and spiritual direction for LGBTQ Christians.
For seventeen years, Matt worked as a worship pastor in the Evangelical Covenant Church, serving churches in Redwood City, CA; Houston; Tulsa; Seattle and Santa Rosa. He is a graduate of the Spiritual Director Formation Program at The Journey Center in Santa Rosa and currently serves on its board of directors.
As a gay Christian, Matt is passionate about the intersection of sexuality and spirituality, and he works to create safe, sacred space for people exploring these identities. His TEDx talk, Choosing Gratitude and Hope, with his former wife, Luanne Nightingale, tells their story of mixed-orientation marriage, an evolving understanding of faith and sexuality, and the painful but necessary choice of divorce, all within the context of gratitude and hope.
Matt is the husband of Alejandro and the proud father of four adult children: Joshua, Jacob, Emily and Zachary.
Tony Gapastione
Co-Lead Pastor
Tony served as an ordained pastor for twenty years and is a graduate of Fuller Seminary. He serves as a pastor at large speaking and teaching congregations all over the Bay Area. He’s a SAG-AFTRA actor and loves being behind the camera writing, directing and producing. He has short films on Amazon Prime and he’s currently producing, writing and directing feature films.
Tony is passionate about his faith and creativity believing that brave stories have the power to effect change. He writes, directs and produces as a freelance filmmaker and hosts community dialogues with his non-profit BraveMaker. Through monthly film screenings and a summer film fest he faciliates brave/safe spaces on our culture’s most pressing issues.
He and his wife, Wendy have three daughters and live in Redwood City, California. For more info go to www.bravemaker.com.
Christine Reyes
Staff Support
David Reyes
Facilities/Audio-Visual Director
Paul Rogers
Bookkeeper
Two years ago, he married his best friend of twenty years, Stella. They currently reside in San Rafael. He enjoys cooking, gardening, tennis, sailing, and anything outdoors.
Our Leadership Team
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